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Diogenes of Babylon posted an update 4 years, 11 months ago
Seneca on Keeping Cool
“More than once, Seneca notes that, unlike other emotions, anger cannot be “hidden away” or “nurtured in secret,” given that it “announces itself and comes out in the face [in faciem exit]”. Anger is to be avoided, because it makes a man its slave. It is best to “repel instantly the first pricklings of anger”.
To those who object that a good man can become angry, especially if he should see some outrageous injustice (like the killing of his father or the rape of his mother), Seneca contends that it is never right to seek to punish wrongdoers out of anger. The mature man will carry out his duties “without fear or turmoil”, for there is “nothing great or noble in anger”.
Seneca’s discussion of anger is imminently pragmatic. One must first avoid whatever might make one fall into anger. If one fails and becomes angry, he must not do wrong because of it. The pragmatic angle leads him to offer guidance on child-rearing. Nothing produces anger in an adult more than “a soft and cloying upbringing”. Children, therefore, are never to be flattered or indulged.”
https://counter-currents.com/2021/04/seneca-on-keeping-cool/
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For me there is a big difference between emotional incontinence and anger. There is nothing great and noble in emotional incontinence. Anger is an emotion that has its uses nothing more. Like with all emotions, recognize and deal with it appropriately. That is what we should teach our kids not sweeping all emotions under the rug as the greatest sin ever like today. That leads to emottional incontinent non functioning adults we see today all around us behaving like two-year olds needing constant safe spaces!
As far as Seneca’s or Dr. Spocks’ advice on how to care for children, I would investigate their childhood development first.