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PiPoe posted an update 5 years, 1 month ago
This is a very recent experience. First a smidge of background…
In the interest of finding more like-minded people on a local basis, I took some advice from an article I felt had the potential to produce positive results.
One suggestion I attempted to implement was to seek out a local church (the article suggested that at least the people who were attending church, regardless of how you felt about some of the beliefs espoused, would be of a mindset toward Good.
I have not set foot inside a church (other than historical cathedrals with a tourist mindset) since I was six years old. I did not care for what I was being taught in Sunday School and received permission from my family to stay home from then on out while they continued to attend services. Experiences and information absorbed since that young age did not alter my opinion of the value of church attendance. So, it was not a small decision for me to consider exposing myself to this environment once again.
Local choices were Baptist, Jehovah, or Lutheran. Accurate or not, I felt that Lutheran would probably be the most palatable for myself.
I visited this church on a Saturday. It was deserted so I just looked around, found an office with posted hours, made a note of them and left.
Tuesday, which was one of the days that the office was scheduled to be open (morning hours only), I returned. Once again the church grounds were deserted an the office was unoccupied. There was a phone number posted so I called and left a message requesting a return call to let me know when the office would be open.
Today, I received a return call. I was informed that the office is just now ‘re-opening’ and that was exclusively Thursday mornings. I was also informed that it was Required I wear a mask. Fortunately, this return call was answered by my voicemail as I think I would have bloodied my tongue from biting down on it.
This experience has reinforced my aversion to churches; I will not approach this venue again. I may seek out a way to form a non-denominational gathering whereby participants can read passages from their various religious texts and sing, chant, or whatever. I’m betting there are more people than just myself who would like to gather for spiritual activity. We’ll see.
I guess this was a mini rant. My apologies if I offended anyone.
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I personally get up in the morning and “tune into” Scott Kesterson with Bards FM on YT. It gives me a calmer perspective for my day than if I just get up and think about the chaos around me. I spent all my youth singing in the choir, which meant being in church 2 times per week, and at a point in my early adult life, I found the Anglican/Episcopal Church left me so, like you, I prefer more of a non-denominational gathering, even if it is through a phone or a computer.
Jeffrey Prather’s FB page. Worth a look. https://www.facebook.com/Kineticprayer
I practice Yoga most days – it relaxes me and helps me maintain a balance of sorts. It also is the time that my mind is in an appropriate frame to form offers of love, protection, and guidance to specific individuals and the world at large.
I am mainly seeking greater in-person interaction (at least to a small degree with people that I feel comfortable talking about more than just the weather). I’ve never been one to enjoy small talk; to keep me engaged it either needs to be of a problem solving nature or of something I consider useful to learn. Needless to say, many social gatherings were attended more out of duty than desire and I generally would seek an ‘out’ at the earliest time politeness would allow lol.
Thanks again for your input.
I guess what I miss most about socializing in person is the energy (the good kind 🙂 ) and gatherings with shared food and music. Those events tended to be fun and uplifting (even if I didn’t stay long).
I have not given up on finding local like-minded folks. I still have other avenues yet to explore 🙂
I hold good thoughts for you finding the people you wish to find in your new location. I am excited for your move!
What you describe resembles a Quaker Meeting. If there are any Quakers near you, you might try getting in touch with them. If not, you could declare yourself to be a Quaker and start a meeting of your own. Best wishes in your search.
Thank you for sharing your experience with the Quaker segment. I have located a semi-local Friends group. I will be contacting them (by phone – I’ll not waste my time investigating in person again) to see what they’re doing now. If they’ve bought into this insanity, I’ll simply keep searching for like-minded people elsewhere. I’ve checked some local meditation groups too and so far they’ve all halted in-person services/gatherings – just nuts. It may be that I’ll have to start my own gathering (of whatever sort) – so be it if that’s the case.
I have a strong sense that it is important to address this situation from local, non-local, physical, and spiritual viewpoints. So, a (or more than one) local group needs to be formed if it doesn’t already exist.
It might be a lot less challenging if I were in a different state or area. I hope your quest presents fewer hurdles. If we’re determined, we’ll make it happen 🙂
Have you read The Power of Eight by Lynne McTaggart? I’m in the midst of it now – it has some relevance and some usefulness to the situation (in my view) and expounds on a concept discussed by Dr. Farrell.